Words of Justice and forgiveness are better than charity followed by a hurting; Lord Allah is the Self-Sufficient, Forbearing.
Those who do charity as showboating are disbelievers as told in verses 4: 37-38. The ultimate Owner of wealth as well as ourselves is the Lord of the worlds. So if one helps others, it should be for the sake of the Three-Time-Knower Lord and by witnessing Him. If anything is spent on charity, the recipient shouldn’t be hurt in any way. Whoever does so, his charity will be in vain. The Lord will not accept any charity, prayer, or any deed from the Arabic Quran reading Fujjar since they are hiding and rejecting Adhikr and are commanding with evils as told in verses 9: 53-54 and 67-68. They will not do charity in the satisfaction of the Lord under Best Book Adhikr.
It is told in verse 31: 12: “If anyone becomes grateful, he is grateful to his soul; and anyone becomes ungrateful, then Lord Allah is the Self-Sufficient, Praiseworthy”. It is told in verse 17: 28: “Any of the closest people, needy and wayfarer approaches you for charity, if you are helpless to give them due to lack of wealth, you have to speak them gentle words”. See explanation 1: 2; 2: 175-176 and 185.